You may get to learn a lot about somebody by spending hours “talking” to them in a chat room, but have you ever observed that conversations that you hold face to face are always far more rewarding? Doesn’t it feel much better to hold her hand, see her smile, and listen to her beautiful voice? Of course you have made these observations! This is because proximity is very important when it comes to developing a relationship with someone. Numerous studies have found that we tend to form intimate relationships with those who are near us....just look at how many of your friends have found their long term lover at school or work!

There is a direct correlation between interpersonal attraction and physical proximity. A very famous study where strangers were randomly assigned seats in a classroom found that people are more likely to become friends with those seated next to them, as opposed to those sitting across from them, even if the classroom was very small. This study was then replicated on a large scale at a dorm of 270 students in MIT where students were asked to list their closest companions. Here are the findings from that study:

The college dormitory was quite small with only 88 feet separating those living four doors apart, yet most people were closest to those living next door. Can we draw any conclusions from this study, or others similar to it? Yes! Proximity is rewarding, and distance is costly. Proximity increases the probability that two people will cross paths. Studies have found that familiarity through repeated contact increases attraction. So the more often that your flame is exposed to your presence during the initial stages of the relationship, the greater her interest in you will be, hint, hint.  

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Numerous psychological studies have determined that the initial spark in attraction is caused exclusively by a person’s physical appearance. If you don’t meet a minimum criteria of attractiveness that is subconsciously determined by the other person, they will never consider you sexually.

So asides from a guy’s physical appearance what other factors come into play that makes a man sexually appealing to women? Well a number of studies find the following:

Confidence is the single biggest aphrodisiac to women; women are drawn to it like magnets.

Two people in a healthy relationship will converse......they will talk A LOT!  If you don’t come across as interesting to the girl she won’t be interested in building a relationship with you because you won’t have anything to talk about. A well rounded man has the ability to converse with women about a host of different topics, but at the same time he is a good listener.

Women are deeply attracted to smells and that is why it is important to be well groomed at all times. A well groomed man with a pleasant smelling cologne will get multiple double takes throughout the span of his day. Cologne should be applied sparingly so as not to overburden those around you. It is recommended to dab some on your wrists, and behind the ears.

Ask any woman, they love a man with a varied taste in music. Most women also associate a man who is extremely proficient on the dance floor as being extremely proficient in the bedroom as well.

Women love men that have impeccable fashion sense because it indicates confidence.The Beta male will not have the confidence necessary to stand apart from the crowd.

This is debatable because although some women admit to fantasizing about it, the vast majority admit that they prefer an average sized penis. However, when given a choice most will tell you that they prefer width to length. Studies across different cultures have found the same results.

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